Tools to Remain Positive

I am often asked how I stay positive most of the time. In one workplace me being positive was seen as an issue by some at the company. That said I do have my down moments, however I believe that a Positive Attitude will enable anyone to perform better than a negative attitude. For example would you have more confidence in a Doctor that just before operating advised you he is having a bad day or a Doctor that smiled and spoke in an upbeat manner.

It can be so easy to get caught up in the moment when things go wrong and develop a negative attitude. In most cases this is the start of a downward spiral. So in this article I am going to write about some tools that I use to maintain a positive attitude.

Tool Number 1: Prior Planning

Prior planning for an activity, project or even your day empowers oneself. It is a simple yet often overlooked tool. Prior planning means that you have received information about your activity, project or day. Therefore when the unexpected pops up, you may have already had a contingency for it or you will at least have more information to make a decision.

Tool Number 2: Create Personal Space

When I am having a down moment or have been given some bad news, I like to have a moment to think. This personal space is important for me to gather my thoughts. I am a pacer and quite often I will either go for a walk or pace. I also like to go to a quiet place to reflect. Another way to create personal space is to exercise or go for a run.”Burning off steam”

Tool Number 3: Relax the Body

A key thing that I learnt from a book many years ago was about relaxing the body. When agitated or worked up over something the body will naturally tense up. Your muscles will tense and your fist will want to clench. In doing the opposite, lying down and stretching out the body and holding the fingers out straight the body is forced to relax a little. Another way to relax the body is to meditate or do breathing exercises.

Tool Number 4: Positive Music or Podcast

Music has been used to set the mood on many occasions, whether it is a romantic moment for a couple or getting the crowd fired up at the football. Music has a tremendous impact on our mood and outlook. I have certain music and podcasts that help to put my mind in a positive mindset. This is mostly upbeat types of music.

Tool Number 5: What If?

This is one that I use often. What if….. everything goes wrong and the worst comes to pass? Most of the time the consequence is not that bad and this puts me in a better frame of mind. The other option is that it is bad and so my mind starts to develop plans for what to do if everything goes wrong. Either way I have a better outlook in the end, as it is either not that bad or I have options.

Tool Number 6: Talk to Others for Advice

Quite often when we are in a downward spiral it is hard to see a way out. Through the involvement of others we can often receive advice from someone that is seeing a bigger picture than we can see. This advice can be from your Supervisor, Mentor or someone that is important to you. You will need to have an open mind to receive the advice that you have been given. For me my wife is an important person that I seek advice from and also to bounce ideas off.

Tool Number 7: Approach the team for Solutions

The sooner you involve the team in seeking solutions the more ownership of the solution by the team you will have. It is important though that you structure the discussion with the team about solutions. This is not a pity party where you all go and talk about how bad life is. It is truly to seek better solutions for the problem at hand. Early involvement of the team will also reduce the issues later on. With this tool it is important that the team maintain a “Can Do” attitude.

Tool Number 8: Positivism rubs off

When you approach things from a positive angle, it does become contagious. It may not the first time, however with persistence people will become more positive around you. By being realistic and seeking opportunities and solutions on an ongoing basis, others will follow suit. A whole meeting can be turned around with the right questions. ie “What can we do about it?”

In Summary I hope that the following tools can assist you as they do me. I use the tools on a regular basis and I find that they ensure that I remain positive in both the good and the challenging times. Yes there are times that you will be down, that is normal, particularly when something goes wrong or a loved one dies. However the trick is not to stay down and get back on top. Here is the list of tools for maintaining a positive attitude:

  • Prior Planning
  • Create personal Space
  • Relax the body
  • Positive music or podcast
  • What if?
  • Talk to others for advice
  • Approach the team for solutions
  • Positivism rubs off

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